We cannot use the Bible as a divine self-help book! We will always try to use it to get the things our hearts are set on, though this is precisely the bondage that sabotages our relationships. The Redeemer lived, died, and rose again so that we would no longer live for ourselves but for him […]
Not Simply an Event That Happened
Sexual assault is not simply an event that happened to you, ended, and now is over. It can have an impact on every aspect of your life—you faith, your daily attitudes and emotions, your self-image, your relationships, and your sexuality. These are not just past issues but remain very real and current. Regardless of how long ago the assault took […]
The Rain of the Word Penetrates
…a truly effective ministry of the Word must confront our self-focus and self-absorption at its roots, opening us up to the vastness of a God-defined, God-centered world. Unless this happens, we will use the promises, principles, and commands of the Word to serve the thing we really love: ourselves. This may be why many people read and […]
Prevalence and Damage
At least one in four women and one in six men currently are or will be victims of sexual assault in their lifetimes. The only thing more staggering that the prevalence of abuse is the acute damage done to the victims. This damage can stem from, but is not limited to, the denial of their […]
Truth Wrapped in Love
Personal ministry is about people loving people, but in a way that includes bringing them God’s Word. This is the “truth in love” model Paul describes in Ephesians 4. The combination of powerful truth wrapped in self-sacrificing love is what God uses to transform people. Tripp, Instruments in the Redeemer’s Hands, p. 21.
Everyone a Minister
The overall biblical model is this: God transforms people’s lives as people bring his Word to others. Tripp, Instruments in the Redeemer’s Hands, p. 19.
More Than Telling the Story Over and Over Again
Naming and describing the evil done to you does not ensure automatic personal healing. However, it does provide clarity regarding sexual assault, and it allows for acknowledgment. If sexual assault is not defined, named or described, then it remains hidden. Telling the truth about sexual assault by acknowledging the traumatic experience is one important aspect […]
Not an Uncontrollable Urge
Sexual assault is a display of power and control by the perpetrator against the victim. It is not a product of an “uncontrollable” sexual urge. Holcomb, Rid of My Disgrace, p. 29.
God Uses Ordinary People
God uses ordinary people to do extraordinary things in the lives of others. Tripp, Instruments in the Redeemer’s Hands, p. 18.