First of all, I’m all for thinking that you are “free to choose.” As long as Bonnie is a genuine Christian, all of this talk is a talk about wisdom. Some choices that are lawful are not wise. Others that are lawful are wise. This discussion, therefore, at least from my perspective, falls into those […]
Sex and Cohabitation Before Marriage are a Cancer
Nancy Pearcey (nancy.pearcey.7) Posted at April 10, 2014 at 8:01 PM on Facebook “Sex and cohabitation before marriage are a cancer destroying marriage from the front end: “In a recent study conducted by ChristianMingle.com, Christian singles between the ages of 18 to 59 were asked, “Would you have sex before marriage?” The response? Sixty-three percent of the single Christian respondents […]
25 Ways to Communicate Respect
I’m sure there is a better way to share a really great post, but I don’t know how to do it. So I’m reproducing it here with a link to where you can find the original. by Jennifer Flanders Actions speak louder than words. You can say you respect your husband, but he’ll have a hard […]
Godly Offspring—Raising Children 1
Introduction: In the beginning we see God creating life. He started with the heavens, the planets, the plants and animals, and then, finally with people. Isaiah 43:7 says he did this for his glory. God received glory by creating people. This comes to him because people make him famous through various means. We praise him, […]
When sin is the focus, the focus is sin
Hi George, Pornography is one of the most pervasive sins in the church today. It is filled with shame, guilt, and hiding. I understand what you are going through, and you should know that it is a pretty common situation. I’ve listed a few books that might help you think about the situation and give […]
Only the Tip
Dear Kim and George, I was thinking about our time together yesterday and it occurred to me that I didn’t address something that you both referenced in your forms—the big fight of a few weeks ago. You both mentioned that it had escalated to the point of punching and some pretty serious physicality. I’m sorry […]
Love As Christ Loved the Church
The Father looked out at a world in rebellion against him. He saw the world filled with “children of wrath.” He saw children who had rejected him, walked away from him, turned their backs on him, and wanted nothing to do with him. And what is the Father’s response? Out of his great love, he […]
Wife’s Role
A Letter to George and Betty Introduction: You both need to know that there is a difference between council and prophetic proclamation. When I say, God says in his word that thus and such needs to be done or not done, it is not my opinion and it is not counsel. It is the word […]
Husband’s Role
Questions for a Godly Husband 1. Are you Born From Above? Men, the first step in having a strong and healthy marriage is to first make sure that you have been saved from your sins and that you are following Christ. There are many things that will come up in your marriage: finances, children, decisions, etc. You and your wife will have […]